Thursday, January 29, 2009

Emotions! Part 4 "Simplify Your Life"

Most of our decisions, reactions, thoughts, and memories are driven by our emotions. Since emotions are hard to define and change frequently, they can be a place of great confusion and complication in our lives. Negative emotions such as loneliness, fear, anger, and guilt can overwhelm what should be happy and productive days and make them seem unbearable. Thankfully, for each of these negative emotions God provides a way for us to rise above and live at peace with our feelings.
In times of loneliness, we can turn to God for companionship and perfect love. When we are fearful, God reminds us that he is stronger than anything that might threaten us. When anger threatens to consume us, God's wisdom has the power to put out any fire and bring us back under control. Finally, when guilt overwhelms our spirit, God reminds us to remember that he has already provided the cleansing sacrifice of his Son, Jesus Christ. If we have already accepted Him, there is no longer a need to wallow in our guilt because God has declared us "not guilty." Our emotions, complicated and changeable as they may be, are not out of our control and with God's help they can be a new place of victory and simplicity in our lives.
1) Out of the four emotions listed (anger, fear, loneliness, guilt), which do you struggle with the most? Which are not an issue for you?
2) Many people have decided that how they feel is not really something that they can control, even with God's help. If you were in conversation with this person, even if that person is you, how would you convince them of God's power over emotions?
3) All of the four negative emotions listed above can go beyond simple emotions to lived out actions very quickly. Describe a time when you let one of these emotions lead you to do something that you later regretted.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Blood Drive coming to the Bayou!

Blood Drive Coming Up
Sign ups for the Blood Drive will begin Sunday, February 15 in the foyer of the church and will continue on Wednesday, February 18, Sunday, February 22 and Wednesday, February 25. The Blood trucks will be in the parking lot on Sunday, March 1 from 8:30 until 12.30. Questions? Call Carla Nelson at 781-3885.

Announcements for your group!

Just some reminders for you:

Marriage Seminar - All Wednesday's in February in Cafe, no charge. 6:30 - 7:30pm.

Focus on Marriage - February 28 in Bayou Cafe. Cost is $80.00 per couple.

Men's Retreat - March 6-7. Cost is $100.00. Sign up anytime.

Simplify Your Life "Emotionally"

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Men's Retreat!

Here we go men! The retreat is coming up quickly.

These are the details:
March 6-7, 2009
Tall Timbers (Woodworth, LA)
Cost $100.00
Sign up begins January 25 at the Welcome Center.

Call 337-984-8291 and speak to Jonathan or Andy for more details.

Invite a friend!

Thank You!

I just want to tell you all that there are 2 awesome ladies that assist me in writing all of this stuff. They are Cindy Ortego and Joanna Broomfield. If you know either of them and see them around, give them a big Bayou THANK YOU! I could not do it without them!

Thanks ladies!

More on Relationships...

If you look back over your life and consider people who have had the greatest impact on you, I bet it is safe to say they fall into two categories. Either they were involved in your life and invested in it or they were absent from it. Either type of relationship can profoundly influence us. My favorite chapter of the Purpose Driven Life is entitled, What Matters Most. On this day, the author is talking about relationships, and he keeps it pretty simple. He says, "Relationships take time and effort, and the best way to spell love is T-I-M-E."

Here are some questions to think about:

1. Our day-to-day lives have become packed with activities, deadlines and chores. What is one way we can schedule "face time" with those we love?

2. When we have been deeply hurt by someone, finding a way to heal sometimes seems almost impossible. If you have had a major hurt in your past, what could you do today to start the healing process for yourself? For the other person? For the relationship?

3. Small groups have become a big part of the lives of many East Bayou members. What do you get out of the experience of small group? Why do you think God says we should meet with fellow believers on a regular basis?